Is Intelligence becoming incredibly sexy! Or am I the only one who feels this way?
I had an interesting conversation with a Clergyman friend of mine a while back, after he had just gotten married. He said to me.
” you know before I got married, all I wanted to do was “hump, hump, hump; if you know what I mean. It’s amazing that now that I’m married, I do get to hump, but for whatever sake you have 24 hours in the day, let’s say you hump for say 3 hours every day (and you must be a studddddd or a porn star to be able to do that. lolz!). That is when you realize that the other 21 hours asides sleeping involves talking and getting into the head of your partner. What do you do then?
Good thing is, i married someone whose mind ” i could make love to” He said to me.
Hmmmmn! I paused to ponder on that for a bit.
As a self-admitted Sapiosexual, (i am helplessly attracted to intelligence but I never knew what the syndrome was called until I had that conversation with him) I think attraction has a lot of different elements, but for me, intelligence is the one that shines through the brightest.
Intelligence does come across in different ways; I’m not just talking about the evident stuff like speaking well, and having a broad knowledge about things., I’m talking about the intuition that shines through in specific instances like a spark in the dark! Now that’s sexy…
Sure, there is something to be said about being physically attractive, but unlike good looks – intelligence is more lasting., Sapiosexuals know that a good conversation is way more fulfilling than just looking good naked. (looking good physically even counts too though)
A Sapiosexual is defined as: “One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature in a person,
I also know that it can be worked upon. No one is born a Sapiosexual!
What are you attracted to or what’s the “deal breaker” for you?
Written By: Ben Omage & Dorothy Francis
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