Many at times, we get let down, disappointed, sad and feel unwanted by the very people we have trusted, shown our love, affectations, helped and supported over the years.
You may have trusted some people, gave your loyalty to them and thought they were your sugar in your tea and butter on your bread. These people could be your family members, husband, wife, children, or extended family members.
Sometimes; it could even be our work colleagues, school mate and church members or pastor or ministers who have mistreated and behave unkindly to you. These types of disappointments happen all the time especially with those we have made our vows to, or promised to love and live the rest of our live with.
In fact, it could seriously be your partner who has disappointed and let you down. He or she may have cheated on you, broke the promises and you could not live without these peoples; so you poured your entire life out to them; only to be treated badly and dishonestly
It does not mean you are the main cause of their actions or did something wrong to merit such treatment from them. In fact, these individuals may have done all these out of ignorance, envy, jealousy, and bitterness.
Let me assure you that, you are not first and not going to be the last. People will always let you down at any point in life but, it does not prevent you from living our live.
During this moment, it can be very difficult to see the stars in the sky. It can also make others feel isolated, hopeless, rejected and not needed by others. It is normal to feel let down when others disappoint you.
Nobody likes to be disappointed as it is never a good thing. Regardless of the nature or who disappoints you, we should never give up on ourselves rather; we should look at the brightest side of life to see what we can easily to do inspire us back on the road to success.
Dealing with letdown moment can be very difficult, uneasy, hard and painful some. It can be traumatic and emotional ordeal to handle ordeal with, but it does not mean your life should end there or you should stop living your purpose or dreams in life.
No matter how difficult it is for you to see through the disappointments and let downs, it will be very useful is you try to shift your mind and focus off the negative side of life and divert your attention on some lovely moments.
Disappoints and let downs are just shadows of life so we must not focus too much on them. There are brightest side of life and only we can see well. This means that, when we allow the letdowns to cloud our foresight, we may lose our direction and bearing in the pursuit of our dreams and aspirations.
People may have let you down and so what? Pick yourself, look up and chase your dream. Nothing is worst in life like letting yourself down. Get Up, Step up and Keep moving.
Believe in your ability and what you alone can do to inspire yourself, to restore or to have hope again.
Regardless of who let you down in life, do not give up on yourself and never let yourself down. Life sometimes will not give us what we think we deserve or needed. Life’s situations and conditions may have contributed in letting us down, but we should not allow anything or anyone to hold us down in pain and disappointment.
As human being, there is always a tendency to want to prove a point to people. Sometimes, it is not necessary to argue with individuals who have seriously made their mind up to disappoint us. We must ignite our inner winning power to try and over these external forces which try to let us down.
We get disappointed when you expect things from men; but when you expect things from God, you get your expectation met. Look unto God.
The worst thing you can ever do to yourself is to doubt yourself while others believe in you. Step up and keep up with your vision. Don’t let imaginary lion scare you from pursuing your dreams and aspirations. You are well able.
You don’t have enough TIME to waste on those who have enough time to waste on people who let you let you down. You must understand that, time is a commodity you can’t afford to waste on time wasters.
Your use of time determines your progress in life. The best way to do this is to avoid focussing on negative people and do not let their action or behaviour stops you from chasing your dream.
Never ever let your let down moments keep you down. Renew your mind and remind yourself that, you are better than disappointments and let downs. Regain your hope and confidence in life by believing in who you are and what you are here to achieve.
No matter what disappointments or let downs come your way in life, get up, step up and move forward. You are destined to succeed!
Ferdinard Senyo Lawson Author: is a Creativity Award (CA-AWARD, 2015) Best Life Coach & Best Public Speaker Winner, True African Heritage Awards (BEST AUTHOR, 2015) and Beffta. Founder & C.E.O of Ferdinard Lawson Empowerment & Inspirational Agency C.I.C ( FLEiA.CIC) in UK, Public Health Professional, Author, Lifestyle Coach, Transformational & Public Speaker ,Publishing Consultant and columnist He is an international speaker.
